Shades Of Words


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 Someone at a Distance is a very real story which is why it’s so heartbreaking. It’s also why the story  of an ordinary upper middle class British family is so gripping. I have not read any other work by Dorothy Whipple so I am not aware of her style of narrative. I did enjoy this from a literary point of view but I found the book oddly regressive to feminism.

Let me start with the plot, which as the blurb indicates is “deceptively  simple”. The Norths are a happy self-contained family of five. There is the mother, Mrs. North and her prodigal son Avery who is married to Ellen. Avery and Ellen have the two perfect children Anne and Hugh. Everyone loves each other as much as would be expected in a reasonable family. Ellen and Avery do have the perfect marriage till Mrs. North’s French companion, Louise Lanier, comes along and strategically wins over the hearts of Mrs. North and then her son. The story follows the after math of the discovery of the affair between Avery and Louise and how it tears apart a happy family.

Whipple’s world is heavily character driven. The prose is not spent on describing places or situations. Instead it’s all about the people. She puts these fictional people in these very real situations and beautifully describes their thoughts, their insecurities and their reactions.

I think one of the more interesting things about this novel is that there is no clear protagonist. You might think it’s Ellen, she is definitely the good to Louise’s evil but I feel Louis is as much the heroine of the book. Louise may be a cold-hearted person and her behavior is not justifiable, but she knows what she has wanted for a very long time and she has worked towards it. A lot of her behavior is also driven by her rejection by her first love. She comes from a small provincial family and it is the fate of her lot to be more practical than logical. With that context, you have to appreciate the economic sense that she applies when she systematically goes through Mrs. North’s belonging’s and determines what can be recycled and what can be thrown. Her behavior towards Hugh and then towards Avery are just actions of a desperate yet calculating woman who needs to create her future. Even though Louis appears to be quite cold and independent, all her life plans are around setting down with a man and getting his attention. It is the 1900s, she can work if she wants. What I truly find unpardonable in her is the way she treats her parents and holds them ransom to her affections.

Ellen is the “virtuous” woman in the novel and I wish my heart bled for her, but it does not. She belongs to the generation of woman who missed the whole “feminism” boat.  These are the women who got married young and whose entire lives revolved around their husband and kids. These are the woman who assumed that because their family was the center of their universe, the sentiment would be reciprocated which in quite a few cases was not. Ellen should have listened when Louise warned her to take care of the way she looked, not that Avery’s straying is justified.  Avery should have given honest feedback when Ellen asked for it.

My main issue with the novel was the fact that the whole break-up of the marriage was focused on protecting Anne, who discovers her father in a compromising position with Louise. I do understand that Anne was a child who adored her father and he had a mighty fall from the pedestal, but it seemed ridiculous that the whole discussion about the marriage became about what Anne would think.

Ellen thinks that she can forgive Avery and can get back with him but only after Anne and Hugh are independent. Avery is not worried about Ellen, but about Anne when he later contemplates his mistakes. I get that when marriages fall apart, children get impacted and have to be protected but in this situation, Avery cheated on his wife. All the discussion had to be between him and his wife. His kids want to protect their mother from him, which is natural but they cannot determine what their parents decide to do. I find this very regressive. I believe children are more accommodating and forgiving than adults. Anne’s entire focus is about her life and about her horse not about the fact her father has left her mother. I feel Ellen is being marginalized by her own daughter even after her whole life falls apart.

The other thing that I take issue with, was the way which the novel ends. It’s a nice and convenient way to tie up the loose ends with Ellen getting a job with Mrs. Beard at the guest house. People are not that lucky, the war has ended and jobs are not that many.

I think this book can provoke a lot of debate and discussion about each character and their behavior, which is what  probably makes it good reading.


Author: Vipula

Before talking about who we are, we’d like to tell you a bit about how and why Shades of Words came into being. It all started with the idea of “A place where we could share with likeminded people about things we enjoy. From books to music to movies to travel; Shades of Words was to be a place about the best of our experiences” We thought about why should anyone read us? The answer was that whatever we review would be a mix of our experience of the thing along with interesting and useful information about it. So in case you are reading us regularly or even checking us out once in a while then we have succeeded in our efforts someway somewhere. Who are we? Known as Kapil Sood and Vipula Gupta, we thought of Shades of Words on one fine Sunday afternoon. Tired of writing interesting RFP’s and project documentation; we decided to give this a shot. Yes! We work in Indian IT industry. Cupid struck us while were innocently slogging together on the highly intricate job of formatting and beautifying documents! And since then, we have been working together to establish Shades of Words as a place that we can claim as ours. (Because buying a house is still years away!) What else? Kapil also writes some blogs which you can read here and here.

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